深入人心的電影。一個人一生都在成長或改變，前提是自省才能自新。大家庭里，外婆一直都是明白人，對于女兒，she could have done better. 所以決定改變外孫,讓他遠離losers, 學好，然后才有機會。那個計算器和那頓飯，之后才有了從軍和Yale Law School。Where you came from is who you are, but you can make choices to become who you want to be. 姐姐承受更多，更有理由放棄，但她選擇了原諒，因為媽媽的過往比他們還不堪。I can't defend her, but I'm trying to forgive her.還有女友，更是體貼，也是因為類似的奮斗和掙扎的過往...